December 5, 2018 by HCDE-Texas
Pre-teen Alyssa Perez, a bordering-on-shy, sixth grader who likes to play chess, discovered her voice in the Kindness Academy at Navarro Middle School in Lamar Consolidated Independent School District.
Her principal Stephanie McElroy believes what kids have to say is important, and staff listens in order to help build a positive school community. Introduced to the school last year, the Kindness Academy is multi-faceted but thrives on the basic principle of spreading goodness, not bullying.
“I firmly believe when you focus on the positive traits in people, you will get positive actions in return,” said McElroy. “When you focus on punitive measures, actions do not necessarily change.”
Harris County Department of Education’s Center for Safe and Secure Schools works as consultants with Navarro to provide resources for character education through a program called Restorative Practices. Restorative Practices strengthens relationships between individuals and promotes social connections within school communities.
School safety and security specialist Janice Owolabi meets with staff at Navarro for trainings on student behavior and de-escalation strategies. The student component focuses on building the momentum of “Acts of Random Kindness” or ARK.
“The Center for Safe and Secure Schools is excited to work with Navarro to promote safe, structured, nurturing environments for an anti-bullying culture,” said Owolabi.
The low-income school is 75-80 percent Hispanic, and some of its 500 students come from foster care or group-home backgrounds. Research supports establishing community and respecting student voice to promote the social-emotional development of students.
Students and staff each belong to four houses. The goal is to build a family culture within each house. Students earn points for the positives: grades, acts of kindness, effort, campus participation and behavior.
“The houses serve as a team for the students and faculty,” said McElroy. “We work to build a collective team spirit; uphold the character traits; and build a family culture within the houses.”
Instead of focusing on anti-bullying education, the goal is to teach children to combat hatred in society.
“The best, most impactful way to do that is to teach children compassion, caring, courage and kindness,” said McElroy.
Giselle Hernandez says the Kindness Academy taught her to reach out to others, like the new girl who had no one to talk to.
“Before, she was shy and scared of everyone because she thought they would be rude to her,” Hernandez said. “Now she knows who she is and is learning to help others.”
With the introduction of the Kindness Academy, students are not allowed to have cell phones on campus. The overall reaction has been positive, according to Hernandez.
“I saw other kids bullying using their devices,” Hernandez said. “Now that they don’t have them, there is no bullying, just positivity.”
Kindness continues to spread at Navarro. Counselor Tanesha Crockett says the school is building a community of support for each other. A student steps into her office and she sets aside the mountain of paperwork to ask how the day is going.
That student is off to a house pep rally, one of four held during the year to promote a sense of community. The halls are filled with drumbeats, chants and students who have a collective sense of well-being.
“With public school days being filled with testing and accountability measures, kids often feel voiceless,” Owalabi said. “Through Restorative Discipline, we are allowing our students to have a voice and be heard and not shut down.”
Perez, 12, hangs out with her siblings and talk to her dogs when she’s a little sad. Her empathy for others is deep because of the acts of random kindness mentality. She continues to grow her leadership skills in her school.
Hernandez is intent on cultivating her kind voice too.
“I have become a leader because I don’t want bullying to be a thing anymore,” she said. “Kids need to have a voice so if something does happen to them, then they know what to say.”
Videos: Two students at Navarro Middle School, Lamar Consolidated ISD, share their thoughts on Acts of Random Kindness: Alyssa Perez: https://youtu.be/NB1H0TBvgz8 and Giselle Hernandez: https://youtu.be/S9gXnJqMOME
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